The attitude of Indian non-Muslim especially Hindu women is very stubborn and irresponsible:
We will wear anything we want, we can even roam naked on the road and men shouldn't even
look at us.
Dressing with responsibility and modesty is needed in India.
This is an ambivalent attitude of women, they amble wearing skimpiest of dresses but don't expect to be watched by unpleasant person but they want to be ogled by selected men whom they like.
Everybody will see the chicken with same eyes, its like showing a red rag to a bull and expecting it to be calm and composed, its the nature no one can control, ask yourself ,don't you feel amorous when u see an extraordinary handsome guy, if its not happening seriously its time for medical checkup.
Its funny, saying we will wear anything we want but don't stare at us is biggest paradoxical statement I have ever heard.
You think men are feeling-less eunuchs, when they see a woman in figure revealing clothes, they don't feel anything or get provoked ? The word “provocative clothes” can you think into why it
was named so ?
While wearing clothes, for both men and women, as per the very natural instincts they will always think that how the opposite sex would find them- attractive, beautiful, hot etc. Now here is the point, if the opposite sex would not find them attractive they would be highly disappointed. So subconsciously or consciously they would want the Men to look at them. Its obvious that the men would look at the revealing body parts as it attracts them. Thinking is something which we cannot predict, as both men and women sometimes may have wrong notions about each other by seeing the appearance, for example; a guy wearing sleeveless t-shirt or an undershirt outside, would be considered by lots of women as showing off his body or a hoodlum. which may not be the case. thinking inside the brain we cannot change. There is a lot of hypocrisy in India.
Hindu girls surely wear clothes to please themselves and also to attract the attention of other men, no girl can ever deny that (except for those who are lesbian or homosexual), but still if men look or feel aroused, they will quickly judge them, paradoxical. Knowingly sometimes they would arouse or provoke men but then as per women, men should not look or pass comments. Its a fact that sometimes some non-Muslim women really like to show off their body same as like some men. Here women can look pass comments and have fun and even tease, but if a man looks then its an insult for them and as per women, men should not do that, this is really contradictory.
So this is the logic of Indian non-Muslim women - "I will wear a micro mini skirt even to the extent that u can see my undergarment but you will not get aroused, its not meant for you, I can dress up the way i want." So does she dresses up like that to please herself or her female friends? See how hypocrite, double standard and contradictory Indian non-Muslim women are.
It seems as if now Indian men before leaving their homes everyday should pray to God that please don't show me girls in less clothes as it diverts attention and causes hormonal tides which could get us in trouble. Its not easy for a decent person to control his amorous thought, he has to fight really hard to avoid spiking testosterone and adrenalin level.
Indian non-Muslim women say drinking does not cause rapes. They justify drinking, going to
bars and pubs.
Now this is what such women need to look at.
These are statistics of USA, a country which they try to copy.
Drug use, especially alcohol, is frequently involved in rape. A study reported detailed findings related to tactics. In 47% of such rapes, both the victim and the perpetrator had been drinking. In 17%, only the perpetrator had been. 7% of the time, only the victim had been drinking. Rapes where neither the victim nor the perpetrator had been drinking were 29% of all rapes.
So even in a country like USA most of the time rape occurs when either the victim or the perpetrator or both the victim and the perpetrator are drunk. In many cases in India too we have seen that the rape victim was drunk.
They say 'we can roam on streets even at 1'o clock at night and and no one can stop us.'
Sure no is stopping you but even if the police or anybody else advises them not to roam on the streets after 11'o clock they get fumed. See the stubbornness here.
This is not Europe this is India and Indian roads are not safe at night, all kinds of criminals and junkies roam on roads at night and its absolutely impossible for the police to secure each and every inch of the city and to keep an eye on every single person. Non-Muslim girls don't understand the situation and behave irresponsibly and when they get raped then every one starts blaming the police and others.
These girls are trying hard to copy western culture. In Europe and USA I have seen there is very little difference between day and night as opposed to most Indian cities which remains totally shut at night and looks like ghost cities.
Putting all the blame entirely on the police and others involved.
Non-Muslim women in India do not even accept 0.1% of the mistake. Sometimes it also becomes the responsibility of women not to be in places where there could be a threat like roaming on streets at 12' o clock, going to pubs and bars especially at night.
You are trying to confront a basic feeling with which people are born with – hunger, thirst, a need to be recognized, carnal pleasures etc.. are needs of a man. You can't say I will put an aromatic Biryani in front of a hungry person and yet expect him to move over and blame him entirely for trying to have at least a spoon of it.
The blame is shared, men for trying to have something not his, and the person who put it in front of him to have incited the act.
Close minded and stubborn attitude.
These girls say that they are very open minded but actually they are closed minded because they don't want to change themselves they say they can do anything they want they can even roam naked on the streets and wear anything its their choice. They justify all the immodest and dirty activities like drinking, going to pubs and bars etc and yet expect no one to even look at them.
They don't want to change themselves and even if someone advises them to dress decently and be modest they get raged and on the other hand they want men to entirely change themselves, shows how closed minded they are. Its like 'you do everything and I will do nothing and still I will get all the salary'.
They are not willing to even take a single step to change themselves, learn some modesty in dressing and change their attitude in public but they expect men to change their basic nature and walk hundred miles.
Change cannot take place overnight they also have to take some steps otherwise the problem can never be solved.
Indecent protests and blame game.
Non-Muslim girls in India carry out indecent protests, Slut Walks are on a rise. These kind of protests are not going to solve the problem except spreading indecency.
The Delhi gang rape protests looked like anarchy. Initially the protests were peaceful but later it became violent, protesters even killed one police man. 99.5% Non-Muslim people were protesting against Congress government and asking for the rapists to be hanged. But government doesn't have the power to hang anyone. It is the job of the judiciary. They even demanded changes in rape laws which again is not in the hands of the government and cannot be done overnight, its in the hands of the parliament. So the logical thing would have been to protest outside the parliament and Delhi high court.
Every country no matter how democratic it may be tries to suppress protesters. USA and countries of Europe are very harsh on such protests. The congress government was very patient and lenient that they allowed protests to continue for so many days in spite of the protests causing law and order problem, disrupting transportation, death of police man etc...
The rape victim and her boy friend were wounded and unconsciously lying on the road side for hours. People who saw them did not do anything, they just watched them and moved ahead. So people who saw them didn't even call an ambulance, for hours they were lying on the road side. That was precious time for the victim, the rape victim could have survived had any one called the ambulance instantly.
Why didn't the protesters protest against those people ? Hypocrisy isn't it. They protested against the Congress government as if the government was god like and controlled everything. Congress government handled the situation very well, their hands were tied government can never punish any one its the job of judiciary and congress doesn't control judiciary, its a separate institution but those goons were protesting and threatening the government to hang the rapists, how absurd when government doesn't have the power to do so.
Protesters should have attacked the parliament, overthrown the constitution and then hang the rapists instead of protesting against the Congress.
Slut Walk is useless, it started from Canada and USA and it couldn't the problem there how can it solve the problem in India. USA is still the country where highest number of rapes occur.
In such protests they only blame others like hypocrites using vulgar comments and fail to put forward any kind of solution, blaming others is not going to solve the problem.
They try to copy western culture and what people in the west do.
Even their dressing sense has become entirely western and all the things like going to bars, discos and drinking has also been copied from them.
This is what they need to look at.
India is at the second spot but USA is too far ahead of India in terms of rapes followed by some European or non-Muslim county.
In United Kingdom, according to a news report on BBC One presented in 12 November 2007, there were 85,000 women raped in the UK in the previous year, equating to about 230 cases every day. The 2006-07 British Crime Survey reports that 1 in every 200 women suffered from rape in that period. It also showed that only 800 people were convicted of rape crimes that same year, meaning that less than 1 in every 100 reports of rape led to a conviction. According to a study in 2009 by the NSPCC on young people aged between 13-18, a third of girls and 16% of boys have experienced sexual violence and that as many as 250,000 teenage girls are suffering from abuse at any one time. 12% of boys and 3% of girls reported committing sexual violence against their partners.
No Muslim country like UAE, Saudi Arabia, Qatar etc.. is in the list of top ten. Women in these countries cover themselves, dress modestly and are under the blanket of great sharia law which is the safest for women.
Our noble Quran rightly pointed out in Quran Surah 4 verse 34 - Men are maintainers of women men have the right to instruct them and don't let them disobey and go to towards the wrong path.
Arrijalu qawwamoonaAAala annisa-i bima faddalaAllahu baAAdahum AAala baAAdin wabimaanfaqoo min amwalihim fassalihatu qanitatunhafithatun lilghaybi bima hafithaAllahu wallatee takhafoonanushoozahunna faAAithoohunna wahjuroohunnafee almadajiAAi wadriboohunna fa-in ataAAnakumfala tabghoo AAalayhinna sabeelan inna Allaha kanaAAaliyyan kabeera
Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
As we have seen non-Muslim Women are hypocrites so are their men. Hindu men are supporting their women in dirty slut walks and Quran surah 9 verse 67 tells the truth about hypocrites.
Almunafiqoona walmunafiqatubaAAduhum min baAAdin ya/muroona bilmunkariwayanhawna AAani almaAAroofi wayaqbidoona aydiyahum nasooAllaha fanasiyahum inna almunafiqeena humu alfasiqoon
The hypocrite men and hypocrite women are of one another. They enjoin what is wrong and forbid what is right and close their hands. They have forgotten Allah , so He has forgotten them [accordingly]. Indeed, the hypocrites - it is they who are the defiantly disobedient.
The country which they try to copy so hard ie; USA is at top position in terms of rape.
They even copied Slut Walk which is a western concept. Slut walks couldn't solve the problem in USA how can it solve the problem in India.
Indian non-Muslim women, especially Hindu women have to change themselves and shape themselves according to India and not thy to imitate the west.
"When you blame others, you give up your power to change." - Dr. Robert Anthony
When you blame others, you give up your power and responsibility in a situation. You are making yourself the victim. .